There's this thing going around Facebook, and I just had to give in. It's 25 random, unknown facts of me.
1. I am the shortest person on both sides of my family and now my in-laws. This has never ceased to be the butt-end of several jokes, but I'm over it now. This also goes along with looking several years younger than I really am. When I used to work in the Jr. High group at Pomona First Baptist as a worship intern, on two separate occasions the youth pastor almost came up to me, thinking I was a new student. Last year while traveling with Jacob someone asked me if I was flying alone and if I was over the age of 16. The best man and pastor at our wedding, Steve, makes numerous jokes about me finally being able to go to prom one day. I've just learned to embrace this and in 30 years will laugh when I look young when everyone else wants to as well.
2. I hate cars. I hate being in them and I definitely hate driving them. This isn't due to motion sickness or anything, but I'm pretty sure that it's due to the several car accidents I've been in, two of them where I had to leave via ambulance. I also think that this is contributed to me conditioning myself to sleep in a car. I'm tired nearly instantaneously and absolutely must sleep. It could be a 10 minute car ride and I'm out like a light. It's rather embarrassing, and I feel sorry for Jacob when he wants companionship and I am unconscious. I rarely can help it when I'm with people I barely know, so I apologize ahead of time.
3. People fascinate me. I love trying to figure out the mind, human emotions, and our reactions to the world around us. I'm definitely going into the right field.
4. I have grown a very big heart for injustices locally, nationally, and globally. I believe that all humans have the same right to quality of life. Furthermore, I believe God created everyone equally, despite race, religion, sex, sexual orientation, etc. When we (definitely those who call themselves Christians) don't love our neighbors, we are deciding that some image-bearers of God are better than others, when this is not how God created us. This absolutely sickens me.
5. I have been involved in some form of music for at least 13 years. This year has been the first year in those 13 that I have had to set my flute aside and focus on my studies, and it is breaking my heart. While I pick it up when I can, it is definitely not the same, and I have pledged myself to pick up again after completing my BA. I'll have to figure out my MA later. But, I at least still have worship, and I have to say that playing the flute cannot compare to the feeling I have singing and playing guitar. I can have the crappiest day ever, and playing and worshiping at home can make me feel back to rights again. I just cannot understand how I can bare my soul this way, but I absolutely love it.
6. I am completely, 100% against war and violence of any kind. There is always another way, sometimes it just takes a lot more effort.
7. I am really blessed to have the friends that I do. Some go back as far as 4th grade, but those few I have kept through jr. high and high school are some of the best supporters I have.
8. I love books. When I was a kid with raging ADHD, reading was the only thing that could keep my focused attention for an extended period of time. Again, I think I have conditioned myself to now not pay attention to absolutely anything other than my book when I read. I get completely engrossed in the story, which leads to my next point.
9. I daydream. A lot. I think my imagination has waited 20 years before fully blossoming. I can completely zone out about what's going on around me and make up stories and characters. I thought that writing them would help my creativity (which I do, I post stories on a website) but I think it's only made the problem worse. I only think more about what I can do next. I think it's just the way my ADHD has manifested into everyday scenarios.
10. Disney really makes my world go round. If it's Disney, I love it.
11. I religiously watch 30 Rock, Pushing Daises, Heroes, and The Office.
12. The concept of voluntary poverty and living simply to give freely is something that Jacob and I what to apply to our lives. It's a little hard now when poverty isn't so voluntary, but one day we will get there.
13. I have had wonderful traveling opportunities in my life. I have visited most of the UK for several weeks, built homes in Mexico, seen Niagra Falls, and have performed in The Kennedy Center in DC as well as The Disney Concert Hall in LA. I definitely plan to take advantage of any more traveling opportunities that roll my way.
14. I have about 7 different friends whose families would claim me as their own in a heartbeat. Growing up with the particularly difficult home that I had, I attached to my friends families fervently. My best friend Kate's family really is my own. They have blessed me with several wonderful opportunities, and I am eternally grateful for them.
15. I absolutely adore my husband. He really is the cheese to my macaroni. We are so similar in our thought patterns and interests that I know that no one will ever understand me better. I have no regrets about starting our lives together early and taking on the hardships with still being in school. I would rather cling to him and God in our difficult times than to miss the growing experience.
16. I have Gastro Esophageal Reflux Disease. It makes eating interesting.
17. I hardly ever cry. I went with my mother-in-law to this large ladies gathering at her church where we watched the movie "Christmas Shoes." It's based off of this sad song about a mother getting cancer and wanting these dancing shoes that the son strives to buy. There were tissues everywhere, and I'm pretty certain I was the only one not crying in the room. Jacob cries more than I do. Nicki says I have a "black heart" (teasingly, of course.)
18. I've broken at least eight bones, just from being stupid and clumsy. My elbow, wrist, both of my feet, and several toes and fingers just didn't hold up very well. I'm hoping I got all of that crazy activeness out of me.
19. My husband and I are about the most forgetful people I know. It doesn't make a good mix.
20. I'm very complicated when it comes to sleeping. Everything has to be just right. No sound ( unless a constant humming of some sort), no light, and no movement. I either sleep on my back or on my stomach, and don't really move. Jacob however, moves a lot and tends to invade my space. I've just had to use the blankets as a barrier, right down the middle. Thus far it seems to have worked.
21. I have a dove tattoo above my left ankle on the inside, and am developing and devising getting more.
22. My personality has changed a lot over the past year or two. I used to be very sarcastic and complain a lot. I have a lot more inner joy now, after being involved at Gracepoint. The feeling I have with my church family is incredible, and I want to share that with everyone I come into contact with. It has really raised my attitude and given me a brighter outlook on humanity.
23. I'm really OCD about how I eat my food. It can't touch each other and 9 times out of time I have to eat them in a certain order, finishing one item before moving on to the next.
24. Music is in my very soul. The collection I have on my iTunes spreads far and wide. I have just about every music type you can think of. I have to admit that my heart lies somewhere in the 80s. My dad brought me up on Bon Jovi, Van Halen, and power ballads. It drives Jacob nuts. I'm pretty sure - no, I know I listen to it way too loud.
25. I've recently have had to cut dairy products from my food list. I've been failing miserably, and am reaching a conclusion that some cheese is just worth getting sick over.